We all agree that in life, everyone goes through a series of events, be it hardships or challenges. What happened yesterday makes us what we are today. I believe that if tomorrow will be better, I can overcome the hardships today. Flashbacks, events, or the series of journeys that one went through. Every single human has a story - a past hidden in darkness and a future cloaked in secrets. And how one always wished to have a better tomorrow. Strength and growth comes only through hardships and struggles. As time passed, I met many different people from all walks of life. The views and perspectives of each individual are of course, different. Everything that I heard were opinions and not facts, as everything we see are perspectives not truth. A dark past, we either make ourselves miserable or make ourselves strong. I was in complete despair but the time that I buried myself in the dark was the time I actually planted myself. Having someone from all the million people to accept you the way you are may not be easy. Time, efforts and sincerity takes place. Honestly, I am not afraid of what’s awaiting in the future but repeating the past is what I have always been anxious about, Of course, it may be difficult and things will not go off your mind but if god wills, I believe that the person whom accept you for who you are will surely value who you are today. The various events and circumstances may have brought me down but I have to tell myself to let go and not let my past dictate my life. In life, I ever wondered why things happened and why it has to take place. But all the things that happened was the glory to my future - For all the storms make trees deeper roots.
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Life is easy but humans always makes it looks difficult. 365 days a year and yet everyday is a new experience. Hope and faith lies when one lives. It is always a new day, a better day and a new experience. And today, I realized that a meaningful silence is always better than a meaningless word.
Anger always take over yourself when you are emotionally tired and done with. At times, arguments will never stop. When anger takes control, one will always want to win over the situation and hell will break lose if one does not give in, especially in relationships - whether with friends, family or your partner. Dignity. One will always fight over their dignity and will not swallow their pride. Human nature, everyone will tend to fight for their own rights, especially when you yourself did nothing wrong or wrongly accuse for. It’s never easy. People have their own different opinions and views. A different world cannot be built by indifferent people. With a new day come, new strength, thoughts and fears will arise. Arguments are reality. In an argument, one will always have to win and the other will always have to lose. Today, i learnt that silence is the best option rather than arguing and fighting over issues. Silence can speak volumes when words can’t. Doesn’t mean one remain silent because he or she give up or lose, but silence is a strength, a source of great strength. I always regretted in my speech and arguments, saying inappropriate things when hell break lose. And things won’t stop unless silence takes place. In fact, every word has a consequences but silence too. Silence isn’t empty, but it’s definitely full of answer. It’s better to left things unsaid to prevent any further issues arise. I choose to be quiet and lower myself down at times not because I give up, but because there is no point arguing. I don’t gain anything from arguing. I choose to give myself in because I realized that is how one should work in a relationship. Pain changes people, but it changes me in a good way - I hope. Silence calms my soul. I may be hurting myself but with silence, I found most answers to my theoretical questions about life. I put my faith fully in destiny, for whatever happens, happens for a reason. People may ask why am I behaving this way. There will be no answer to the questions because things that happened made me this way. I don’t mean to hurt anyone when I kept myself quiet but I want people to know that by keeping quiet and giving in, they will be more calm to settle issues instead of having your feelings taking control of you. However, doesn’t mean someone stay silent, they tend to forget the things around. Silent people always have a hidden thunder inside of them. I believe that silence is the best eloquent reply for which silence will definitely calm your soul. |
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