The perfect timing -never too early, never too late. But with a little patience and faith, The time will come and it is worth the wait. In many circumstances, almost each and every human will be curious of the things that befalls them and often question themselves “why?”. Battling the struggles is always never easy. You can be emotionally and mentally affected by what had happened and worst, it can affect you in your daily life. Alternatively, you will always feel like you are not good enough. Personally, I’ve been through this stage and I was mentally down since there were too much things to think of. I had been putting the blame solely on myself, and there were no sense of optimism or light in my life. I belittle myself and was always wanting all that happen to end but I then realised… it wasn’t the right time. The struggles had made me become who I am today. I believe the struggles are all game levels to deal with and when one is struggling, it means that one is progressing. Everything that happens, happened for a reason. Nothing good will come easy. The progress made will continue to brave yourself through life. Do not blame yourself over what had happened. There is no need to rush. For instance, to make your parents happy, time will tell. Maybe you couldn’t afford to make them more happy now but trust me, they will be more than happy in near future with what you have. In other words, there will definitely be obstacles coming thru your way and plans. This is because Allah SWT has plan it in a way that the right time to make it happen will come. His plans for you is the most glorious and necessary for you, and important to the world. And I believed that His plans are beneficial for each and every individual. Never compare your life with others, as every individual is born differently - interesting and unique right? At times, His plans may not be what you wished for but have faith in Him, it will definitely leads you to a better path with courage and sincerity. And of course, some things does not happen at the right time because it is not bound to happen. A few years back, I was late for work and I began to blame myself. Obviously I was pissed with the people around me. I rant everything out, totally devastated as I am not supposed to be late!!! When I’m done dressing up, I decided to check out the news (which I don’t usually do but my heart suddenly made me do it?!). Shocked, there was actually an accident that happened on the usual way I used to go to work. Speechless, I just stop ranting and wondering how blessed I was to be able to “escape” from the accident. Or else, it could be me either witnessing it or being the victim. From then on, I realised that there is always a reason behind everything that happen. “Nothing shall ever happen to us except what Allah has ordained for us. He is our Mawla (protector).” And in Allah let the believers put their trust. Quran ;Surah Tawba, Verse 51 Well, the bud of flowers are not forcefully open therefore, don’t rush into things and force things to happen. Take it slow and have faith in all the things that happen. It is never the wrong time for the right thing. And the right people will come to your life at the right time. Trust the timing of your life.
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Amazing how time flies. The struggles made me into whom I am today, finding myself as days passed.
Entering the working world, a whole new phase, a whole new environment. Since young, I have always wonder how the adult working world can be so boring - well, I’ve seen how tired my family is when they come back from work. Be it office hours or shift work, you work so hard just to pay off your bills. Not everyone grow up to be a president or Beyonce. Each and everyone in the world are born differently. I always question myself, “why?”. At the age of 19, you have to choose and decide on your own life. Work or School? Money or Studies? Knowledge or Experience? Aren’t all of them equally needed to enter the real world? Without money, obviously you can’t survive. But without education, how can you work? The root of everything is knowledge. Knowledge is power, where it should be harvested and cultivated which I believe can be used to change the world. However, at the same time, how do one work while strengthens their knowledge. Isn’t it tiring? You have to work for about 9 hours and then study for another few hours in order to gain more knowledge. Personally, I always thought that study comes first as knowledge is the power. However, I was wrong. Power is where knowledge and action comes together, where it is applied in the working world. Well, you can always study as time goes by. There is no age limit to stop studying right? And in order to survive in this world, money is essential in life. At the age of 15, I have been working to financially support myself for my expenses, in terms of school and personal things. It was definitely challenging to juggle both my studies and work at the same time, setting my priorities right. The time I had was limited and everything was crashing onto me -exams, expenses, projects, etc. The different experiences I gained over time brings out my confidence to enter the real working world, where I should start to work full time and forget about my studies. At the age of youth, deciding your life and taking a step ahead is one of the hardest things ever!!! From families, friends, work, money, expenses and study. Which one should I choose? Which should I decide on? Everything is equally important to me but I guess I have to continually jump off cliffs and develop my own wings down the road. The world is just….crazyyyyyy!!!! I guess I have to welcome my new phase in life now and take my steps slowly to be able to battle my life, in order to triumph over the struggles. |
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